HAPPINESS
WRITTEN BY: ABIA IRIS
Everyone wants to be happy. And the best way to create a happier life is by making other people happy. Here's why:
Firstly, you are witnessing it. The minute you see a smile on someone's face, you instantly get this bubbly feeling inside of you and it feels good. Next, you made it possible. Instead of saying it verbally, you put it into action. You feel happy because you did something to make others happy. Last but not least, what you sow, you eventually will reap. When you treat others right, it comes back to you. If you help someone, help come to you when you are in need. When you make someone happy, you will get happiness in times of distress.
To make someone happy you don't need expensive gift, fancy restaurant or anything that is out of this world. All you need is a heart that is genuine. Here are some way to make those around you happy.
1) Give compliments
Positive words have the power to encourage and lift someone up. Just a simple compliment like 'you're beautiful', 'you look great' or even a simple 'thank you' can make a person feel special. So go ahead and give someone a compliment today and see that bright smile on their face.
2) Show gratitude
Many times we tend to take things for granted. For instance, at home, where our mom does the chores, the cooking, the cleaning and managing the house. We sometimes make it seems like its her job to do all those things and we take her for granted. But by showing gratitude, you will not only ease her work but you will make her feel happy and at peace.Gratitude is a way of being thankful or a way to show your kindness in return.
3) Share what you have
As they say, sharing is caring. It may be the cookies you have, ideas or hobby. share them with your loved ones and those around you. Take a child for an example. When they share their toys or treats, they give this sweet smile. It shows they are happy about it. A child has a pure heart and when they share, they share it with love.
4) Tell a joke
It can be a good one or even a terrible one. Jokes in general are used to make people laugh. Laughter then leads to a happy feeling. But too much laughter might indicate something is wrong with you, hahaha....so mind your laughter.
5) Give a hug
Hugs are know to give relieve from stressful feelings and situation. Hugs can instantly bring someone into a comfort zone where they may feel calm, happy or just at peace. However, hugs should be used when appropriate.
6) Smile
Be is a stranger or someone you know, just show that beautiful smile of yours and it will trigger them. We don't know what people are going through everyday and we don't necessarily have to ask them about it. Sometimes, a smile is all we need to make them feel better. It doesn't matter if its just a 20 minutes talk or when you're passing by, just smile and see the magic for yourself.
7) Just listen
We tend to think that people in hard times is seeking advice but what they are actually looking for is someone to just hear them out. Try it. When your friend or sibling is going through a tough time, just ask them what's wrong and assure them that if there's anything they want to share, you are ready to listen. And all you have to do is listen. You became a place where they can share their thoughts. You are playing a role in helping them to let go and not hold back.
8) Gifts
I don't mean fancy, expensive gift. Anything can be a gift. Like yesterday, i got my grandma a bunny plush toy and a balloon while see was at the hospital. She was so happy about it and it made her day. You can even make something by yourself, like a card or painting or maybe bake something. You can even write a letter or buy them their favourite drink. It doesn't matter what you give as long you give it whole-heartedly.
So there you have it. 8 simple ways to make someone happy and in return be happy yourself. What are you waiting for? Go out there and brighten someone's day.
